Today was Mason’s first day of school. I’ve been anxious for it because he has been so excited about if for so long…but at the same time, I didn’t ever want this day to come. He’s my baby, well, the oldest of my babies, and as much as I was excited for him to grow up, I didn’t want him to, either.
This morning, I woke him up by telling him that he was going to school. We’d been counting down the days anyhow, but I figured it would get him excited at 7 am. It worked - I’ve never seen him get out of bed so quickly. I was worried about getting him to eat so early in the morning, when usually he’s up for an hour or so before eating…but he had no trouble deciding what kind of cereal he wanted, and making sure that I knew that he needed milk in it (until recently, I gave them dry cereal because they’d spill the milk everywhere) and that he needed a spoon. He helped me pack his lunch by choosing what he wanted for his snacks, and I’d already prepared his sandwich (he’d been telling me for days that he wanted a “ham and kraft single sandwich”, lol). He had a shower and brushed his teeth, got dressed and then got to sit down and watch cartoons for about 5 minutes.
I took pics of every single part of his routine this morning - let me tell you! LOL! We got his coat and shoes on, got his backpack up onto his back (is it just me that finds it funny to see kids wrestling to get their backpacks on?) and headed out the door. We were the first ones to the bus-stop, but the other boys (who live behind us and have come over to play with the kids and Elvis occasionally) weren’t far behind. We ended up waiting for the bus for about 15 minutes, which was OK because it was nice out. We were told to be out there 5 minutes early, but with all the extra Kindergarteners on the bus, it was a little bit late. The parents of Kindergarteners get to choose if they’d like “door step service” and while I declined for now (until it gets cold), I think a lot of the other parents chose to do it…it was comical seeing the bus across town weaving in and out of the blocks picking up kids who lived so close to eachother.
Finally the moment came. You know, the big moment when the bus rolls to a stop, with red lights flashing, and it’s time to send your child off to the big, bad world. I was trying to hold him back (for the photo-op, I promise) and let the older boys go ahead of him, but there was no stopping my boy - he was across the road and up onto the bus before I could get ahold of him. So, missed the photo op, lol…but did get a pic of him with the bus driver, when she made him come back because she saw the camera in my hand (and probably the look on my face). Before I knew what I was doing, I became the “embarrassing mom” too. I stepped into the bus and said “Mason, be good at school”. What was I thinking? I was pretty much going to be following the bus to the school, lol…I would be seeing him again in about 15 minutes.
Resigned to the fact that he was growing up, I walked across the street again. I thought I was doing OK…until I turned back to see the bus starting to move forward. Queue the waterworks. I started to cry, walking back to the house, holding Natalie’s hand. Natalie was crying too, which made it that much more difficult. I thought she was upset that she didn’t get to go on the bus, but she told me that she missed him already. Poor baby girl. Poor mommy.
A few minutes later, we were in the car, headed to the school. We ended up behind the bus for a minute or so, but it turned off and we beat it to the school. Mrs Webb, the Kindergarten teacher (and also the principal) was outside, waiting for the buses, and greeting every new child by name. It was so sweet. We chatted with her between buses and finally, Mason’s bus pulled up. At the same time, so did a carload of other Kindergarten parents, all with cameras in hand. Again, our bus driver noticed the cameras and didn’t open the doors until the parents were all crowded around the bus, and she let each of the 6 kids off the bus one at a time, perfect photo ops, lol. Before I knew what was happening, Mason was in the crowd of kids heading into the school, and I lost track of him before he went inside. I caught him inside, by the classroom, being led by another adult (I’m thinking it was another teacher or teacher’s assistant there for the first day of Kindergarten). He walked past me, didn’t say hi, and then said to the lady holding his hand “that was my mom”. Goofball…lol! I took a couple pics of him in the classroom, getting settled, and then ran in quickly (after seeing another mom go in, lol) and gave him a hug and a kiss and said goodbye. He wasn’t even looking at me or returning the love…but he did say “goodbye” as he put together a puzzle in front of him.
I headed back outside, as there were still a million parents and kids clamoring in the hallways, and I think the other classes were in session (at least, the kids were in the classrooms and they were quiet). My MIL headed into the school to say goodbye, and I guess he just looked at her and told her “Grand-MA…you have to go HOME now”. LOL! And so, we headed out. At least at the school I didn’t cry.
I wasn’t really in a mood to go home, and knowing it was my mom’s tradition to go out with other parents for coffee on the first day of school, I did too. Well, I didn’t know any of the other parents, so I asked my MIL to go for coffee, lol. And we did some shopping afterwards, as well.
Fast forward to 4 pm, when the bus pulled up just as we we got there to pick him up. He looked like this was old hat, he knew what he was doing…walked nicely across the road, the older boys guiding him over. Natalie was so excited and I had to actually, literally hold her back. Once he was near, I let her go and she gave him a big hug, lol. Maybe this is just what they need…to be apart, so they can stop bickering all day long. LOL! The walk home was a bit awkward with the older boys, but not too bad. I learned that the oldest boy asked Mason to play soccer with him and the rest of the soccer team (maybe at lunch, or a recess), and that Mason forgot to switch from his indoor to outdoor shoes during the first recess. Mason didn’t seem to want to talk about school, though…but as soon as we walked in the door, I asked what was in his backpack and he opened up.
He brought out a little worksheet of the letter A. Now, I have been working with him on his letters and stuff, and he knows the letter A really well by now. But, it was so darn cute. On the front, he had to write his name, and well…he did pretty well. I had to giggle, though…because I knew he tried SO hard. Opening it up, he excitedly told me that he had to color in all the apples with the letter A in them, and they also practiced writing it in upper and lowercase. On the back of the worksheet, they drew things that started with the letter A. I immediately recognized an apple, but the second thing on there I was a bit confused by. When I asked what it was he said with disdain “I don’t know, but it’s not an alligator”. LMAO!
So, their first day of school was centered around the letter A. They sang a song called Alligator Alarm, but he only remembered some of the words (I’m sure he remembers them, but he gets flustered when you ask him to repeat things). I prompted to find out what else they did and was told they had lunch, and recess. LOL! A little while later he told me they colored in apples and he had 3 colors: red, green and yellow. And they did the chicken dance.
It’s funny how at the beginning of the day, I was so apprehensive about sending him off, all day I walked around with a hole there in my heart, worrying about how he was doing. But as soon as he got off that bus, and I knew he was OK, that little hole filled back up…and after hearing him tell me about his first day, my heart swelled. I know he’s anxious for that second day to start, and I will be honest and say…I’m excited for it too!!